It seems, if anyone* reacts angrily, then it is alright, and chalked up to emotion and hurt.
If I, react angrily, then I am losing my mind, and terribly inappropriate.
Perhaps it may not make the most sense. But I am of the opinion that too many cooks, spoil a perfectly fine broth.
My how problems are compounded when too many try to define them.
*(bear in mind that I speak in generalities. unless specifically noted, nothing I write is in reference to anyone, or anything)