Tonight is about answers.  Mainly, needing some.  So, most of my readers know what my current situation is, and why it is so.  Obviously, I have shown displeasure at this in a variety of ways, but there does not seem to be much I can do, A cruel and spiteful person has control over what I can, and cannot do, well, not completely, but when you cripple a persons finances that badly, you may as well be doing that.

So, here is the question, and all opinions are welcome of course,

What do you do in this situation?

Again, bear in mind that you are in a legal bind, and you are dealing with a person who cares nothing for your success or happiness.

Okay, so now that the situation is clearly defined, I would like to hear others give their takes on this.  I am still young, but long years of owing seem to be ahead of me, I plan on working more, but I am finding few enough hours in the day as it is, and I desperately want to try and enjoy life somehow too.

Alright then, fire away people.